Wednesday 19 April 2017

NICE GUYS DON'T FINISH LAST. THEY ARE ALWAYS FIRST

Many times I have heard people say nice guys finish last. Even I have been told that whenever I am being pure and kind. Today I will set it straight that nice guys don't finish last.

These days people do not understand the essence of life. People have become greedy and selfish, and will do anything to get the next buck, girl or job. There's no more room left for honesty or truth. And those that prefer to remain pure are seen as stupid losers who will always come last.

But what many do not realise is that its not the destination that's most interesting, but the journey. Too many people rush to get to the top and along they topple those they need most, and then wonder why they are all alone at the top. EVEN A KING NEEDS SOLDIERS TO GUARD HIM AND FRIENDS TO SUPPORT HIM WHEN HE FALLS. Too many people miss this point while in their quest for greed power and wealth. They say we are hustling but do not understand that a hustle is more about learning, creating friends and a great support network which will work with and for you when you are the top. They just want to be number one. A man alone who is number 1 is nothing to 10 others whom combined make up a greater army than him.

The nice guy understands this and that life is not a race against others but a race against yourself. It is all about doing better than you did yesterday. It's about staying ahead of yourself. Improving yourself and strengthening yourself. AND THEY ALSO UNDERSTAND THAT MOST TIMES YOU HAVE TO ENJOY THE SCENARY BECAUSE THAT'S WHERE MOST ANSWERS COME FROM. They are not kind for rewards or to look better. They are kind because it builds them. They do not offer help because they have nothing to do but because it builds them. And they are always aware of when they are being manipulated. They do not act quick because they are waiting for the right time to take the next route. They understand that they have to go the the road with potholes with patience because speeding may reck them. They observe and act in silence. They wait patiently for their next turn off and once they turn that's it.

The nice guy understand that at the end of the day its not about just reaching the destination. Its also about the memories. Its not just about building that castle. Its about how many allies you have. The nice guy doesn't create enemies unnecessarily. He doesn't manipulate any one. He remains honest and truthful to himself.

THE NICE GUYS VALUES AND ENJOYS WHAT HE HAS BECAUSE HE KNOWS ITS VALUE.
THE BAD GUYS DOESN'T SLEEP DAY AND NIGHT BECAUSE HE HAS TOO MANY ENEMIES AND MIGHT LOOSE IT ALL AT THE BLINK OF AN EYE.

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